"And things are often far from what they seem," I reply in kind, even if the line grates. It's one that's been used against me any number of times, often to gloat, but that's not my intention here. What use would there be in pouring out my regrets to this man? What right do I have to alleviate my guilt in such a way?

The answer to both of these question is: none.

"All men have regrets," I add. "And a parent who doesn't feel that upon hurting their child doesn't deserve the title."